"WE ARE....." DON`T DEFINE US !!!

After a classic start, lets go for a plausible one. Our intent is not to validate our rank more than men but to get equal certificate. This is probably taking shape but something stands as an impediment. This "something" is nothing but certain knee jerk clichés usually known as "stereotypes". Generally some which starts with' Women are...' .

                                  There is always a profound feeling in  me about the word" beauty". Why is this word so much needed for women but no sweat for man? Good looking is expected more from women than men, this is because we gave the word "beauty" a feminine gender.                             What image your mind whittles when we say the word "Nurses". Obviously a women in her snowy attire. Why? Is there no men nurses? Its because we assume that nurses are always women .            We give second look to a girl or a women riding a motor bike while our eyeball fluctuates in normal when we see a men riding scooty.                                                                                                      Why boys  group standing in the street are ignored while girls group standing in the street are given a stare? Why  a teenaged girl talking in the phone suppose to be talking  with her guy? Why a girl of western attire presumed to be out of culture?                          

What are the reasons behind such stereotypes, which again subjugate women.? There is no answer for this question, because no one knows the root cause for such creepers. It has emerged without anyone's cognitive action. It didn`t bother anyone's normal day but these are snake in bushes for women`s dignity.

  Why bride's sister should not step out the room during her marriage alliance while the groom's brother accompany his brother during the occasion .  The  answer for this question is that the groom may go for the sister if she overwhelms in beauty than the bride . While women give no space for such quantum leap. This again elevates  women's value, while sets down the men. We are no less than men.

                           Yes, " We are..." something, which except us, none can judge. Stereotypes don`t define not only "us", but no one in this world.

          This is not being acrimonious, but dolorous words of a bird which in spite of wings can`t fly due to the storm of "clichés" ..... 

 

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