IN SCREENS, BEFORE LOVE, THEY STALK.., AFTER LOVE.."DUDE, THESE GIRLS ARE ALWAYS..."

Women are essential commodity in cinemas . Excluding the role of a female lead, we always need to notice the way her role is taken. A  day was there, where the films hit the screen when it has a first rate script. Now its totally, obverse , if there is no good script, they have got up with some tawdry bonzer to make a hit. .

The most neoteric craze are "stalking" followed by "sayings about girls".

                                                         These two motifs would always be the hit scenes in a movie.

Stalking, the all time job of a boy  chasing a girl to love him. This has always lead to vulnerable consequences in real life. Movie should stop promoting such scenes in the films which unconsciously inflict the teenage boys to do the same, thinking it [stalking] to be an heroic act.. Is stalking really an heroic act? Mostly Dhanush , a Tamil star who has taken masters in stalking have given most of his hits by promoting stalking scenes in his movies. They are as follows; movies like Three, Padikathavan, Thiruvillayadal  Arambam ,Polladhavan etc.  Apart from him , there are certain other films which proselytize this stalking ,which has to be put an end. This stalking is, which has lead to most of the sad social consequences. The Nungambakkam incident., the incident which happened in Colombo`s Wattala, acid attacks on teenage girls  etc., are the aftermath of this stalking.

                  Movies are not only for  entertainment but they do have social contribution in our society. Being the members of the society, even actors and actresses are accountable to the society. Its not frenzied way of approaching an issue but a pale move with a request not to promote these scenes. in the movies.

 Since this is uttered in second, its not a subordinate motif. It again stands as a blockade for our fly. These are actually some mottos and catchphrases printed on women in general which usually starts with "Dude, these girls are always...". Its not wrong to criticize the character lead of the movie because that may be her trait but why to mention it in a generalized way overlaying all the women. This is done to grab the applause of teenage boys and adults. Since to get the film a hit certificate from the audience, fostering such verses is not a good move.

                                    A hero says " Its not easy to control women but very much easy to confuse them." What a cheap idea on women, Are we out of our stability to get confused ? or Are we wild to be uncontrolled ? And other scene which had captured the claps in this movie  is where the hero says to his mother "Mom , everything is adulterated.., only thing which is pure in this world is men`s heart.." This again ranks their own air down.  .All these which I mentioned are from the movie which hit the screen a month ago titled "Remo" starring Sivakarthikeyan being the hero verbalizing everything which I stated. This movie also stands as an example to support my former motif namely stalking. In this movie,  Sivakarthikeyan, the protagonist stalks the heroine who is already engaged with   another guy. The movie also  has a song which has again captured a mass ,"Senjitaley" where the lyrics goes like this,  "I don't want to you in ease, I don`t need the love which I get out of stalking and following ".  Criticizing, everything is not at all our objective, but do stop framing such lyrics. I know even girls are fascinated by these songs and scenes, Question can be raised what bothers me..  ?    As a girl I expect my respect  and safety in every field , so do raise for the safety of women in. whole .  

   The leftover is the smashing trend again nowadays in Tamil Cinemas, "Love Failure song". In these sort of songs, is where they frankly subjugate women in their own way,  not just by humiliating their girl but generalizing women, having a bottle in their hand. Movies promoting such scenes has lead audience to think,  that if its love failure its unwritten law to fall into liquor drinking. The scenes which are shooted just for a moment entertainment has a big impact. Audiences are not to be blamed because, we are after all human beings, we do like to be real heroes like, by following a girl the same way as the hero did. But now the issue as grown to such enormous, seeking the support of the audiences also to stop fostering such scenes being screened.

.                   Women have just started to rise , why to be an impediment for your own counter gender?

                        All these have been latter day trends . Star Rajinikanth is now a Super Star not because he stalked girls in his movies, Dr Kamal Hassan has became  Ullaga Nayagan not because he made  catchphrases about women in his movies, Actor Vijay became Illaya Thalapathi not because he lowered the dignity of women in any. All these stars are still maintaining their career because of focusing on their determination, work and style and not because of other stuffs. Tamil movies like Visaranai, Baahubali, Saivam, Kuttram Kadithal etc., have gained a National Award not because of screening a love failure song. There are many ways to make a movie blockbuster.

           To be mentioned, I too love all the movies I stated and I am a  big fan of Dhanush and Sivakarthikeyan..., but viewing in a deep sense , I think there needs a molding . I also request the current and upcoming directors to take our motifs into account.

                                                          I have posed a sturdy argument , anticipating for a cool tweak.

Movies are to entertain people and educate a subject.

                   From my side, in addition to.., movies have an objective to raise awareness about an issue  BUT NEVER ALLOW THE " MOVIE" TO BE AN ISSUE.....

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